Ever felt excited about a job opportunity that sounded perfect, only for the experience to fall flat once you got in? Maybe the role promised growth, flexibility, and great culture, but the reality turned out to be… not quite what you expected.

If this sounds familiar, you might’ve been catfished, and no, we’re not talking about dating.

Welcome to the hiring world’s latest drama: career catfishing.

The Bait and Switch

It usually starts with excitement. You come across a job post that checks all the boxes, great work-life balance, exciting projects, and a supportive team culture. You polish your resume, prep for interviews, and feel like everything’s falling into place.

But a few weeks in, reality sets in. The tools are outdated, expectations are unclear, and the vibrant team culture you imagined is nowhere to be found. So what happened?

You got catfished. And believe it or not, it happens in reverse too.

It’s Not Just the Companies

Candidates aren’t immune either. In today’s fast-moving job market, where first impressions happen fast, there’s often pressure to make profiles stand out. Sometimes, that leads to highlighting experience in a way that sounds more polished than it really is. While most are simply trying to put their best foot forward, it can occasionally blur the line between confidence and overstatement, creating mismatched expectations down the line.

Hiring is a complex process with pressures on everyone involved. Employers need to find the right fit quickly, and candidates want to secure meaningful, fulfilling roles. When expectations aren’t fully aligned or communication falls short, misunderstandings happen. Rather than blaming anyone, it’s more productive to see this as a shared challenge that calls for greater honesty and openness from both parties.

When both parties are dressing up the truth to make a “match,” disappointment is inevitable. The result? Burnout, turnover, and a whole lot of “this isn’t what I signed up for.”

Let’s Hit Pause for a Reality Check

What if companies told the truth, like the real truth?

“You’ll work hard, but you’ll grow fast. Our team i involved. Employers need to find the right fit quickly, and candidates want to secure meaningful, fulfilling roles. When expectations aren’t fully aligned or communication falls short, misunderstandings happen. Rather than blaming anyone, it’s more productive to see this as a shared challenge that calls for greater honesty and openness from both parties.

When both parties are dressing up the truth to make a “match,” disappointment is inevitable. The result? Burnout, turnover, and a whole lot of “this isn’t what I signed up for.”

Let’s Hit Pause for a Reality Check

What if companies told the truth, like the real truth?

“You’ll work hard, but you’ll grow fast. Our team is small, so you’ll wear many hats, but your ideas won’t.”

And what if candidates felt safe being honest?

“I may not have all the answers, but I’m always willing to learn. I’m not perfect, but I bring energy, curiosity, and a drive to grow. And like everyone else, I’ve had my fair share of learning moments along the way.”

Imagine how refreshing that would be.

No More Catfish, Just Real Connections

Maybe it’s time we let go of the pressure to be picture-perfect and simply show up as our authentic selves. Every workplace has its unique challenges, and every career path has twists and turns. What matters most is growth, honesty, and the willingness to learn. Behind every job title or resume is a real person doing their best, and that’s more than enough.

So, next time you’re on either side of the hiring table, skip the filters. Ask the real questions. Share the messy truth. And trust that the right match will see through the fluff and still want to work with you anyway.

Hiring isn’t a dating app. Let’s stop swiping based on hype and start building real connections.

Comrise

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